Saturday, November 30, 2013

21


Hey it's been a long time, pals? Yes I only post once a month recently, how lazy.But I still post my daily updates on my instagram @andudei if you want to follow. Well, talking about November for me it's not only about the lovely rain or its coldy weather, but also my birth month too. I turned 21 this month. It was at November 12th.

Turning 21 is not just about you are allowed to walk in the bar and get drunk legally, it's a lot more than that. Some people say that over 20s is the key to adulthood.Yes I understand this quote since I know that life and problem grows more complicated as we grow older. In this stage I over thinking about my future so often, will my life later can become what I expect it to be?


And in this age, I have to start to change myself, from the one who always say "just let it flow" to the one who will say "I will make it". I realized that from this time I don't need to be a passenger in life for any longer, from now on I'll drive and decide where do I go. I don't want to be a kind of person that waits for things to happen, I want to be the one that makes them happen. And I'll find my own destiny, because I believe that destiny is not a matter of chance, it's a matter of choice, it's not a thing to be waited for but it's a thing to be achieved.

And as I grow older, I just want to be a better person. I know I'm not perfect but I always hope I can perfectly complete the life of everyone who loves me. I want to be the reason they smile, though  I know I'm not the only one. But as long as I live, I hope my presence can bring happiness to them.


Okay, let's talk about my outfits. It's still cold outside and keeps getting colder as we go to the end of the year. I still love my coat that I got from thrift-shopping to warm me up and mixed it with my self-designed ikat shirt and a white jeans from Lea and an unbranded beanie I found at Carrefour. And you see what I hold here, It's not a clutch, it's a Bible case.


See you on the next post readers!

16 comments:

  1. Happy birthday Andudei! :D wish you all the best things in the world, stay awesome!
    your outfit looks rad!

    Love,
    Pudding Monster

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  2. Preach andu :)
    Only dead fish who follow the flow and also we're not perfect but we can be "a better person" than before :)
    Happy bday, btw. When is your birthday exactly?
    I like your shirt :) where did u buy that?

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    Regards,
    Fahmy Haryandi, "The Whisperer"

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  3. Happy belated birthday! love your vibrant shirt color!

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  4. Sometimes you just have to let life bring you! :D Happy belated birthday!
    Btw, I love your top.


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  5. nice outfit! :)
    happy birthday~

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  6. Lovely shirt color :D

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  7. suka warna kemeja nya :D
    you wanna follow each other via GFC? let me know ;)

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  8. i always love that you love to wear pattern like batik and tribal :D

    nice look!

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  9. Hwaaaa happy birthday adundei, hehhe
    this nice color, love the shirt and your pants sooo old school!! superb love it

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  10. Lovely blog you got here! I can't wait to read more from you.
    Would you like to follow each other?

    Xxx
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  11. i love the way you match the color!this is so good :)


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  12. Hi Andudei! It has been a long time since I visited you, pardon me for being a caveman (maybe cavewoman?) haha. Well happy birthday to you! though it's super late.. yes we've to make our own future, i don't really believe in destiny, we can make our own destiny. and yesss gee I feel the same way like you are, problems are just getting complicated and sometimes I wish I can feel like in my childhood, when I just do what makes me happy, but now all that I do come with consequences, so I have to think about that :/

    yah, for now it's good for us to chase our own dream and not rely on people about that. Enjoy holiday season!
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  13. haiii ini ada kisah apa ini ko bisa gitu hehe. btw HAPPY BIRTHDAY NDU :D ohiya you balzer mencuri perhatianku hahah mixing with batik really good idea :D

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  14. Oh, so you're at the same age with me. Happy very belated birthday HAHA nice outfit, anyway! you're so into wearing blazer that way (;

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